Love is a slow kiss goodnight, It’s anticipation. Love is flirting ourtageously and still remembering that the person at your side is not obligated to do anything, It’s respect. Love is an imperfection in your self not bothering you, it’s acceptance. Love is passing up an opportunity because the time isn’t right yet, It’s patience. Love is a back massage that starts above the hairline and ends around the insoles, it’s exploration. Love doesn not have to say, “lets make love,” because you know what the other person wants, it understands. Love is being given an honest chance to say no when you thought you were committed, it’s consideration. Love is both of you remembering protection, it’s responsibility. Love is saying the perfect phrase to make a solemn embrace dissolve into giggles, it’s humor. Love is being told “stop and i’ll kill you.” It’s desire. Love is reviewing the damge to your living room and realizing personal effects are strewn in a clockwise pattern from the front door the to bedroom, it’s abandonment. Love is seeing what your love really looks like for the first time, it’s truth. Love is knowing what time it is and not caring, it’s joy. Love is the arms around you tightening their embrace, it’s ecstacy. Love is seeing a new side of a person you thought you knew, it’s renewal. Love is telling a person if you have to leave, you will let them sleep, and being told they would rathr be woken, it’s tenderness. Love is waking up to find the subject of the dream you were having asleep on your shoulder, it’s where fantasy meets reality. Love is being there to wake your lover slowly, it’s sensuousness. Love belatedly knows why you bothered to buy a queen-sized bed three years ago, it’s practicality. Love is two people only taking up a third of a queen-sized bed, it’s closeness. Love knows you gave the extra set of keys to your apartment to the right person, its trust. Love is saying good-bye and knowing you will be back by mutual consent, its faith. Love is stretching your arms and discovering the real meaning of the word “sore” it’s a lesson in human frailty. Love is opening your medicine cabinet finding your tube of toothpaste turned into a prezel, it’s adaptation. Love is sitting at the window, looking out and remembering who you were with the night before, it’s reflection. Love is hearing the weather forecast for a winter storm and wishing you could spend it in bed with your lover, it’s loneliness. Love is stories that will never be told, it’s personal.
You can never expect anything because everything happens for a reason and sometimes, fate works against you, but it doesn’t mean you should give up. It’s just inspiration to do better. Life would be no fun if everything happened the way you always want. I believe that you should be happy. So start living life and take risks. You never know what will happen. When you’re young, every little thing feels like the end of the world. We’ll later realize that it’s only the beginning. I know this year hasn’t been the best, maybe it’s been the worst. But things will get better. Embrace the ride and breathe. Learn from yesterday, live for today, and only plan for tomorrow.
We’ve never gotten to the t e x t i n g part. That’s an important milestone in any relationship. "I’m gonna give you elena’s cell number and her email. she is b i g on texting.
A good relationship isn’t a game you play or an ego trip you take. It is about love and two people. Loving someone can give us the greatest joy we can ever know and it can hurt more than we can believe too. When it does not really hurt when that person did something disappointing to you, but really hurts when you see that person in pain and sadness, then you know you truly love that person. Loving someone means you should be ready to experience heartache and happiness at the same time. That’s the reward and that’s the risk. Unless we are willing to experience it, we will never really know what it’s like to love and be loved. Sharing love is probably the most valuable and meaningful experience a person can ever have. And there’s a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone. It’s the difference between a love that’s fickle, wild and short-lived and one that’s tender and passionate, nurturing and lasts a long time. The first is easy. The second, the one that really matters to all of us, takes work ” because it’s about keeping a relationship. Loving someone takes efforts. We have to be able to communicate with each other. Nobody can read anyone else’s mind. We always presume that our partner knows what we think and feel. Maybe in time we might be able to predict or sense each other’s thoughts but it’s never perfect and takes time to develop. Getting the chance to love and be loved by someone is blessed. Respect him/her for who he/she is, and not what you want him/her to be. Everyone is pretty and special in his/her own special way. No one is perfect. It is true love which closes the gap of imperfectness to form a smooth surface of acceptance for each other. True love sees and accepts a person for who he/she is. It is also true love which makes a person change for the better. The power of true love to a person is undeniable. A relationship needs commitments too. What is love without commitments from each other anyway? It’s like principles and values. Everyone has them but they only mean as much as we are willing to stand for them.The same goes for our commitments to relationships, and the person we love. “Love is like an antique vase. It’s hard to find, hard to get, but easy to break.” Every day everywhere, people fall in love … but just how many of these relationships are self-sacrificing love, and not just relationships which are formed only for the intense feeling of falling in love? I know hundreds of friends who say the magical words “I love you”… but more often than not, the truth is just ” I am IN love with you. There is a difference between being in love with someone and loving someone. If a person says he/she is in love with you, he/she means that he/she likes you for who you are now and he/she fell in love with you because of the present you. This kind of love is temporary and lasts only as long as the fairytale lasts. When fairy godmother comes in at midnight to whirl us back to reality, we see the heartache of such a relationship…where both were only IN love with each other. But if a person says he/she loves you, he/she means that he/she loves you unconditionally for who you are now, who you were in the past and who you might be in the future. When he/she says he/she loves you and really means it, you have to ask yourself if you love him/her too or if you’re in love with the idea of being in love. It is very hard to see the difference through logical thinking. Let your heart guide you.